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PTSD and Suicide Prevention: A Complete Guide for Veterans and Their Families
PTSD and Suicide Prevention Debriefing Marines after Operation Iraqi Freedom II was an intense therapeutic process. Marines were expected...

Hilary Valdez
Aug 16, 20254 min read


The Last Kiss – A Reflection on Love, Loss, and Letting Go
Life is motion. Motion is energy. Life changes people. Circumstances change. In the early stages of my life, I experienced significant,...

Hilary Valdez
Aug 1, 20254 min read


The Walk of Life: A Journey Through Caregiving, Loss, and Love
The Walk of Life Illness humbles us all, but it can also draw families closer in care, compassion, and connection. When my sisters and I...

Hilary Valdez
Jul 26, 20254 min read


Fate, Destiny, and Karma: How Meaningful Coincidences Shape Your Life’s Path
Fate, Destiny, and Karma “You meet your destiny on the road you take to avoid it.” - Carl Jung Do you believe in Fate? Karma? Destiny?...

Hilary Valdez
Jul 11, 20254 min read


Love Through War and Time: Overcoming Relationship Challenges Across Generations
Relationship Challenges Are you still with the same romantic partner from high school? Well, that depends on your age. The road of...

Hilary Valdez
Jun 27, 20254 min read


The World You See: A Journey Through Grief, Perception, and Emotional Healing
The World You See A few years ago, I was in Rockford, Illinois, an idyllic leafy, tree-filled city, north of Chicago, close to Kenosha,...

Hilary Valdez
Jun 23, 20254 min read


A Journey of Personal Growth and Emotional Transformation
Personal Growth During Vietnam my role as a bugler was to play taps while Marines were being buried. Grim duty. I played over 100...

Hilary Valdez
May 13, 20254 min read


A Tribute to Mothers: The Heart of Every Home
HAPPY MOTHERS DAY Women today make up almost half of all workers in the United States. An increasing number of women are either the sole...

Hilary Valdez
May 7, 20254 min read


How Rock 'n' Roll Sparked Social Change: Breaking Barriers and Shaping Generations
To be an effective writer, every scribe knows they have to risk being transparent and honest. In this article you might figure out how...

Hilary Valdez
Apr 27, 20253 min read


Redefining Masculinity: Men, Mental Health, and the Challenge of Change
Guys like to take things apart and blow things up. During life, all guys need to tune themselves up, readjust their outlook, and...

Hilary Valdez
Apr 18, 20253 min read


Children of Suicide: Growing Up in the Shadows of Loss
Children of Suicide One of my saddest memories as a trauma specialist was conducting a group therapy session for children. A Christmas...

Hilary Valdez
Apr 9, 20254 min read


Conflict of Ideals: Effective Strategies for Resolving Disputes and Embracing Growth
“What’s right today is wrong tomorrow. It all depends on where you are; It all depends on when you are; It all depends on what you feel;...

Hilary Valdez
Mar 30, 20253 min read


Self-Management & Stress: Transform Your Mindset, Build Resilience, and Improve Emotional Well-Being
Self-Management & Stress As we know, defensive behavior leads to resisting change. Stress management involves recognizing, accepting, and...

Hilary Valdez
Mar 21, 20253 min read


Conflict Resolution Lessons: A Federal Investigator’s Shocking Experience
Conflict Resolution Lessons Decades ago, when I was a Federal Investigator with the Department of Justice in Washington, D.C., I attended...

Hilary Valdez
Mar 11, 20254 min read


The Male Challenge: Overcoming Self-Limiting Beliefs for Personal Growth & Stronger Relationships
Self-limits are imposed by habit. Some bad habits are connected to a negative self-image. It is difficult achieve personal growth past...

Hilary Valdez
Mar 1, 20253 min read


Emotional Resilience: Finding the Courage to Be Yourself
Finding the Courage to Be Yourself The choices we make in connection with everyday thoughts, feelings, and behavior result in either...

Hilary Valdez
Feb 20, 20254 min read


Life Adjustments: Overcoming Change, Building Resilience, and Finding Growth
When I was single, the bumper sticker on my car read: “Happiness is Being Single.” After a few years, that bumper sticker was replaced...

Hilary Valdez
Feb 12, 20254 min read


How Psychological Maintenance Builds Resilience and Happiness
“By three methods we may learn wisdom: First, by reflection, which is noblest; Second, by imitation, which is easiest; and third, by...

Hilary Valdez
Jan 29, 20254 min read


Finding inner peace: Mental Notes with Hilary Valdez
”The aim of psychoanalysis is to relieve people of their neurotic unhappiness so that they can be normally unhappy.” -Sigmund Freud As a...

Hilary Valdez
Jan 18, 20253 min read


A New Beginning: Embracing Growth, Connection, and Renewal
Here we are. Another year. Another chance at self-renewal. Now is the time to mend relationships and friendships. Making the effort to be...

Hilary Valdez
Jan 9, 20253 min read
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